You know, it is easy to blame those that have succeeded and still exhibit some character flaws as being undisciplined. But I have come to realize that it is more difficult to maintain success than to achieve it.
What builds a house is not what maintains it, so also what takes you to the top is not what keeps you there. Skills and charisma will take you to the top said a wise man but character will keep you there- Potentials, talents and skills may only make you successful but it takes character to maintain that success.
It is true that we can't totally live without flaws, but your ability to minimize your weakness by maximizing your strength is what matters. There are some people's names I will mention and you may not be able to point out any visible weakness that they possess not because they don't have but because it has been minimized. Like somebody said that "Success is the ability to minimize your error".
There are three areas everybody must be able to master very well to remain successful:
1. SEX: Your sex life is not a news yet because you are not yet a news, when you become a news, your sex life will also become a news. Imagine if president Obama sleeps with a lady today, CNN,SKY NEWS, NTA, AIT, Network, New York Times, Punch and son will all carry the news but me and you do it today, nobody may know except we and the person that did it. The sex drive is the strongest drive we have in human nature, so your ability to manage it matters a lot. Bill Clinton was supposed to be the best president America ever produced but he wasn't. Why? Because he slept with Mornica Lewinsky. Ethyl Messin was supposed to be one of the greatest footballers Nigeria ever produced but today rots in prison because of a sex scandal. Samuel B. Kent, a federal district judge in Texas was impeached because of a sex scandal also. Can you see how sex brought these great men down? If there is no other reason why you should abstain from sex outside the marriage environment, do it because you want to be great.
By Miracle......
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